In response to Write Meg’s ‘selfie’ post – what if your face just isn’t quite right?
I was really interested in reading Write Meg’s post this morning about “the humble selfie has practically risen to its own art form” because it is something that I have watched shoot to fame with the introduction of Instagram and as Facebook developed. Only 23, I still remember a time when my house had no computer and certainly no mobile phones. Photos were not digital for the Ruthnum household and they were only taken on special occasions by my parents or extended family – usually with half a finger over the lens or someone pulling a funny face, but with no way of knowing until they had been printed.
Now, everyone has an iPhone or something similar, having had mine stolen recently and lived without it for some time (I actually felt refreshed and relieved to have a short break) but it does leave you at a bit of a loss for things like photo-taking and sharing. I am a big lover of having a camera on every night out and snapping endless pictures of my life, I love Instagram because I see it as a wordless blog and a way of sharing my life with my friends. I am that friend that is partially hated by others for capturing the moments people least want on camera – many will send me that dreaded text the morning after a night out begging me not to put that picture, or that video, on Facebook.
I love pictures that show people in the moment – not posing – just having fun and sharing memories. If a pictures doesn’t not instantly transport me back to a wonderful time and place in the endless library of my memory – what is the point?
However, I am not adverse to the odd selfie, mainly if my face happens to have fallen into place quite well after a night of tossing and turning in my bed. I just don’t understand the point of uploading a different one each day, basically of you pulling the same face, with the only difference being a different outfit!
But that is my next issue – how do these girls get their faces to make such different faces? My face is stuck on two settings – big grinning smile, or neutral. Sometimes it will venture into mildly annoyed from the neutral, but rarely. I’m always one of those people who prefer to have a smile on their face.
But this new generation of girls have pouts, gasp faces, cheeky grins, big eyes, and all the rest that they seem to accentuate in their photos! Genuinely, if you look through my photos on Facebook, you will see clearly that my face does something very similar in each. Mainly because when I take photos, it is usually because I am having the time of my life. I’ll admit, it’s slightly embarrassing but sometimes I do long to be able to pull off a pout, or a sticky out tongue picture – but then I figure, what’s the point?
Let’s be honest, pouts just look ridiculous, especially when you see the pictures of groups on girls tarted up on a night out all sticking their lips out until they protrude further than their noses. Screw it, I’m sticking it the old-fashioned, but classy smile. It’s always worked for me so far!
Hahah oh my god I loved this post – some peoples selfies make me laugh so much. We’ve all got those handful of people on Facebook who upload a new one every other day and has some weird big eyed, pouty look going on. I don’t know how they can get away with it! I used to be a bit more adventurous with selfies (that’s a weird sentence) but as I’ve grown up and grown out of my teenage phase, I’m like you, can literally only get away with smiling.
That’s not a bad thing though everyone looks so much better when they’re smiling and looking happy rather than pulling a duck face! xx
haha I’d almost forgotten about this post! I’m the same, I refuse to pout in pictures, I actually look a bit special and just extremely drunk( even when I’m sober!) haha. For me it is all about the smile, if you’re not smiling in pics, you’re not having a good time. Those are the ones who spend more time Instagramming their lives than living them, like I said in the other post about watching the world through a screen… haha and I just saw the bit about being more “adventurous with selfies” that almost sounds a bit rude 😛 hehehe xxx